How to Make a Boy Fall for You

Um... so this was a request from a friend.
It'll be a little awkward for me to write this since I haven't really uh, put much thought into this, but I hear I'm er- pretty good at attracting boys >___>. . . or at least, my friends say I do.

*cough. OKAY! I'm just going to say this straight without beating around the bush because I hate being awkward. I wanted to write a "How To" on something, and my friend said I should make a "How to Attract Boys". Why? Because everyone thinks I know how to flirt, and always asks me how do I get so many boys to like me. This is going to be really awkward for me to talk to about, since I am NOT a flirt. Anyways, I got some credentials on writing in this topic, so don't think I don't know what I'm talking about (even though I kind of don't xD;;).

I don't know how to necessarily attract a boy, so I suppose I'm going to write about how to have a boy fall for you? LOL I don't know. Writing about romance freaks me out, honestly xD;;. I don't like thinking about it when it's personally involving me or my opinion. But I'm trying here, so don't judge me! ^ ^;;

How to Make a Boy Fall for You

Prologue (yes, there's a prologue xD)


I have this theory that I've found to be true. Males are quite similar to females. Now wait! Before you go, and argue or protest, listen to what I'm about to say. There are the obvious things that separate a boy from a girl; like our different general interests and ..what not xD;;. However, male or female, we're all humans alike. We have the same needs and wants. As humans, we want someone to talk to us, to listen to us, to be there for us. (..girls just tend to show this desire more xD).

And so, after saying this, I shall explain how to use this fact to your advantage on the male species. It is much easier than we, females, make it out to be :3.

Step One: stop talking, and listen, will ya?


Gosh, all you females out there talk way too much. Being a female myself, I know this all too well XD. I don't know why, but girls are always able to yap about something; whether it's about the latest gossip or some weird squirrel that bugged you on your way home. And if you're a girl reading this, you know it's true. Don't try to deny it.

Going back to the prologue, we're all human, so we all need to talk to someone every once in a while. Boys are totally the same way. Hey, don't stick to that stereotype of boys being brainless fools who don't have anything to say. It's not true~! If you were to stop talking about yourself for once, you'd see that the male species actually has a lot to say (a little too much if you ask me xD). Okay, so half the time they might be going on about the latest video game, but if you can just try to pay even a little bit of attention, it'll make you seem like a really cool gal'.

I swear you can even just nod your head and be like "yea, that's totally cool!" even if you don't know what he's saying. Guys do that to us all the time, so it's okay to do it back! x3. If he's talking about how he died during Left 4 Dead, and lost all his money to the zombies, it's still okay! He'll have fun trying to explain to you how not cool that is xD. As long as you try to show interest, than he'll love you ;). Just pay enough attention to ask an occasional question, and let him keep talking. You might not be that interested in what he's talking about, but it can be really cute sometimes to listen to him though. Seeing their eyes light up as they talk about their love for the game ^ ^.

LOL If you really like the guy, go on wikipedia or something, and do a tiny bit of research on the game. If you can be knowledgeable enough to have a slight conversation about it, you've just practically caught his heart xD.

This is specifically talking about video games of course, but it goes for everything in general. Just let the man talk every once in awhile, and try to pay attention to his interests too; not just your own.

Step Two: turn down the attitude, and be sweeter


I don't know why, but some females can be so mean to boys. Okay, so they're outsiders of sorts to the women race, but if you want to get a guy, you gotta let them inside. Keeping them at bay or scaring them away (heehee that rhymed :>), isn't going to get you anything :P.

You have to be nice to the boy. <-that's probably the most obvious thing anyone could tell you, but nobody ever seems to fully acknowledge it.

You don't have to treat the boy like they're the best person in the world (unless you think they are...), but you should not him as if he's gross either. Most boys like feisty girls who can be witty and playful. Mind you, being feisty and being rude are two different things. Sometimes

Don't treat him like he's an alien. Treat him like you would a friend. With a friend you'd care about their feelings, and how they're affected by what you say.

Step Three: try talking to them, eh? :3

LOL None of this will work if you don't gather up some courage, and talk to the boy!
I don't know why, but some girls can talk about a boy for hours. Yet, she can't talk to him for a measly two seconds. Boys aren't scary. I promise xD. Some might be... dangerous, but I'm leaving it up to you to decide about that :3

Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice saying, "you can do it!"


Anyways, this is the end of my three step "How to" on getting a boy to like you.
Pay attention. Be nice. Have confidence.

:3

disclaimer: if any of this happens to fail. it's either because it wasn't complete properly or the boy is unusual. LOL just kidding. if you happen to not like my three step how to, than don't be angry. this was just based on my experience, and may or may not work for your specific situation. so don't get angry at me if it doesn't work ^ ^;;...

Toys for Tots

It's one damn a.m. :V I'm sure as hell tired, but I am posting a blog entry before I go to sleep.
I stayed up tonight, so I could finish my stupid math project. Didn't get to finish it in the three hours that I spent on it, but I just got like two more paragraphs to write. That makes me happy xD. I can finish it by tomorrow since that is the case. Then I'll be done with it (yesh!). But I got my English project to do too OTL. But I can finish that real quickly. I just need to finish reading the last 60 pages of my book, and write about it and whatnot :P.

Math project was a pain in the ass though. I had to do a report about the seven bridges of Konigsberg. It's a really interesting/fun topic, but writing about it is a real drag. My dad said he wrote a report about it too, and it turned out to be about 7 pages. ...I can only write about it in three pages (double spaced) :P. I'm said to be a good writer, but dad is better. That annoys me :\ probably because I'm very competitive xD (yesh, I'm even competitive against my own dad :3).
Speaking of competitiveness, like a day or two ago I donated money to charity because of my weird competitive personality xD. My teacher is doing a make a difference activity by raising money for an organization called "Toys for Tots." It's run by the U.S. marines, and it's an organization that donates unopened toys to the needy children.
Here's the incredibly cute commercial for the charity:

So all the classes that my teacher has are competing against each other. Which ever class can raise the most money will get a party or something like that. I don't really care about the party that much, but the very idea that my class losing annoys the crap out of me. Thus, when my teacher showed the amount each classes raised, I saw that we were not in the lead anymore. I donated 20 bucks. LOL it was hilarious though because when I pulled out that 20 from my wallet, Rin-chan was like "Wah~ Is that a whole 20 dollar bill?!?" and after everyone heard that they all started clapping. It was so weird ^ ^;;...I have no idea why they were clapping. Maybe they were happy we were in the lead again? Maybe they were glad I was being so "generous"? Maybe they're just weirdos? The unfair part about it was that X-chan donated $20 the day before me, and she didn't get a happy applause. Today, two other people gave in a charitable amount and they didn't get an applause either. So that really confuses me. Maybe people were just in a clapping mood when I donated? xD lol. Gleek-kun was happy though. He really wants to raise money for this charity. I have no idea. I think it's because he wants to earn more than my teacher's classes from last year (so maybe his reasoning has to do with competitiveness like me?). Our aim is to earn $2000 :3. I wonder if we can do it~. It's only been the first two~three weeks, and we have already raised $200, so I think we're going at a good pace ^ ^.
Hmm...so in a way I guess I'm being selfish and generous at the same time xD. Selfish because I only donated for my own purposes and wants. Generous because donating is donating xD doesn't matter why you do it.

Anyways, this is a seriously good cause to support. If it is possible, please donate some unopened toys if you can or find/convince other people to help. If you do I'll love ya forever~! :D :D
lol probably not the best motivator xD but seriously, it'd be very much appreciated if you help support this wonderfully thoughtful cause.

Wouldn't it make you feel all happy to know that you caused a child somewhere in this world to smile?